Dear and the Headlights

Dear and the Headlights

The Intersection Of Human Collateral Welcomes Us Back

Dec 16, 2008

Words by Sean Moeller // Illustration by Johnnie Cluney // Sound engineering by Mike Gentry

Ian Metzger sings, "I haven't felt this way in a long time," on "Bad News" and then he sings it again and makes it pierce as if it's got to get out and then there's the thought that maybe this way of feeling is good or it's sarcastic or the recognition of it, the labeling of it is sarcastic. Then again, maybe it's not. Ah well, for now, Metzger's way is just a way for now and it's the manner in which he travels with the majority of the lyrics he writes for his band, Dear and the Headlights. He jerks the steering wheel sometimes into the ditch to sing about big epic emotions, but more often, he just let's his top hand trail off to the right, toward the radio station knob and the cigarette lighter, letting the car drift over and across the rumble strips meant to warn someone that they're veering off the safe path and getting precariously close to the ditch weeds and stray litter.

It's over there where things get interesting, using this thin strip of cement that rarely gets used unless an escape route is needed in the face of something bad or there's a need to get out of the way for an emergency vehicle - also meaning that something bad has occurred. Metzger and the rest of the band are great at giving a story the kind of soft and loud dynamics - the salt and the sugar, but also the mild and the fire hot - that the Pixies and Nirvana are celebrated for, though they provide them more in the way that Will Sheff and Okkervil River do, as if they were all there in the first place and these dynamic shifts just needed to be cleaned off, hosed down out front to get the mud removed, to remove the cast. It's not part of a formula, but an actual life force that comes of these trying times that get written about on Drunk Like Bible Times, the band's latest full-length.

Were Bible times more or less drunk? It seems that there were problems just as there are these days so the only difference might have been the tolerance levels, with those in the AC times able to take down more because the alcoholic potions were four times as potent or whatever number we can agree upon. They were drunker times, but the reasoning for getting pissed drunk hasn't changed. It's the same shit, just a different day. We hurt people and we get hurt by people. There's a continuous struggle to get by. Just that ambiguous getting by is a struggle. It can all be wiped out conversationally as inconsequential - these struggles - and we're wont to do that during this time of the year, when it's all about being thankful for what you do have, for taking inventory of the many blessings of friends and family that everyone has at least a few of.

It's the human collateral that slips through a lot of the Dear and the Headlights material, giving us a glimpse into the way that parallel lines often work when they're connected to two people, but seen without too much strain. We move and they move, equidistantly all the same and all the time and we're able to just observe that bigger picture. People work on themselves and they put a lot of time in at the shoppe, poring over the rough edges and even if they don't have blinders on, it's always tantamount. The parallel lines move - hello over there - until they're allowed to cross and bump and then it just causes more things to write about, more things to have to work out as the lamplight dims in the workshop. Dear and the Headlights guide us through the veins of these parallel lines and into these intersections with all of the skid marks streaked across the ground, fresh and hot to the touch.

Dear and the Headlights Official Site
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  • Great band

    katrinalmoreno | Friday, December 04, 2009 | 9:55 pm

  • I think the descriptions for Parallel Lines and Bad News are flipped. Just a heads-up.

    snarerushjunkie | Sunday, November 08, 2009 | 10:03 am

  • This article was well written and I love the parallel lines metaphors the writer creates. This band is amazing, i have seen them 3 times and hope they come back to philly soon.

    Christian Banchs1 | Friday, December 19, 2008 | 1:01 pm

  • Surprise Surprise…way to go Ian

    Jon Axtell1 | Friday, December 19, 2008 | 1:57 am

  • nice. i like that drawing of ian. spit that shit like a dragon, fool! love you guys.

    dylan thomas pals1 | Thursday, December 18, 2008 | 3:04 pm

  • So, there I was filling out the Daytrotter year end poll on Monday… Saying how Dear and the Headlights should be on Daytrotter ASAP. Little did I know

    Todd LaMondie1 | Wednesday, December 17, 2008 | 8:46 am

  • I caught them live last month in Chicago on the 15th, had a great time.. And I had been playing their newest CD in my car nearly two months straight before retiring it for the sake of not getting sick of it. heh

    spencer | Tuesday, December 16, 2008 | 7:44 pm

  • I’ve been playing the newest album in my car for 4 weeks straight. I’ve seen them twice in concert; oh that it were a hundred… Best band found in the last 5 years.

    Whisper Flores1 | Tuesday, December 16, 2008 | 3:11 pm

  • I basically have a total band crush on Dear and the Headlights. I died a little when I saw this. So amazing

    Ashley | Tuesday, December 16, 2008 | 11:24 am

Songs by Dear and the Headlights

  1. first song

    Welcome to Daytrotter

    Download Dear and the Headlights playing Welcome to Daytrotter
  2. second song

    Parallel Lines

    Download Dear and the Headlights playing Parallel Lines

    - original version appears on Drunk Like Bible TimesThis song sums up Italy for me. By far the most mellow song we have accomplished, but it came out the way we had hoped.

  3. third song

    If Not For My Glasses

    Download Dear and the Headlights playing If Not For My Glasses

    - original version appears on Drunk Like Bible TimesThis song was nearly finished when we recorded our last record, but we decided to hold off and wait to let it settle down a bit. I think it worked out for the best that we did. There are a lot of little details that would have been skipped had we not.

  4. fourth song

    I'm Not Crying You're Not Crying...

    Download Dear and the Headlights playing I'm Not Crying You're Not Crying...

    - original version appears on Drunk Like Bible TimesWell this song is mostly about my own dealings with the meaning of playing music and why I still want to be a part of it, or not be a part of it. There are a lot of things that have ended up coming along as a result of writing and performing the songs we have now, some are great, others are terrible, I'm still trying to figure out which is which.

  5. fifth song

    Bad News

    Download Dear and the Headlights playing Bad News

    - original version appears on Drunk Like Bible TimesThis is one of our favorite songs that we have done to date. The lyrics of this song deal heavily with the awkward movement toward self-realization. Good times.

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